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When you think of a strap-on sex toy, do you immediately think of it as a way for someone without a penis to enjoy the sensation of penetrative sex? While it can be used for that, there are many reasons why males with working penises should consider adding a harness and variety of attachments to their sex toy cabinet. 

Harnesses Can Keep the Momentum Up During Your Refractory Period 

After ejaculation, males have a recovery period called the Male Refractory Period (MRP). Most males will be unable to get an erection or continue penetrative sexual activity during the MRP, which can last anywhere from a few minutes to a day or more. A strap-on will allow you to continue penetrative stimulation during this period. This can be especially useful if you climax before your partner and they want you to keep going, but you are unable to. However, it can also be useful if you have a long MRP and your partner has a more frequent sexual need than you can keep up with. 

Harnesses Can Allow For Different Sizes 

Many men wonder what sex would be like with a porn-star penis, and a harness can allow you to try out a larger-than average penetrative toy with your partner. There are even some harness adaptations that fit over your own penis, allowing you to experience stimulation while your partner does. But what you may not consider at first is that harnesses also allow you to experiment with smaller penis sizes. There are many benefits to smaller sex organs, such as better maneuverability, less painful sex, and better anal stimulation. So if you happen to be larger than average, a harness and toy can help you give your partner the experience that comes with an average or small penis. 

Harnesses Allow Different Shapes 

The human penis is relatively straight and lacks significant texture. Condoms try to make up for this by having ribs or studs, but strap-ons can take that a step further by allowing you to try out significantly different shapes. Bubbles or beads are meant to stimulate the nerves at the opening of the vagina or anus, while a curve or hooked end can stimulate the g-spot or prostate better than most human penises. These different shapes can make your sexual play more stimulating for your partner. 

Harnesses Help With Double Penetration 

With careful placement of the harness and a consensual partner, you can achieve double penetration with a harness. This can be done with a double-ended dildo or with your penis and a toy. However, to achieve this, you may need to try out a couple of different harnesses and toys to get the right mix. You will also have to practice your positioning and possibly adjust your rhythm to get full, satisfying penetration. 

Harnesses Work Different Muscles 

Sex can be a powerful, exhilarating workout that releases endorphins and makes you feel great. Using a harness can take that workout aspect of sex to the next level. Because the placement of the sex toy is different than the location of your penis (in most cases), you will work different muscles. This not only gives you a different physical experience, but also give you a different mental experience, potentially making you more aware of your movement and more in the moment with your partner. 

While harnesses and toys may not be for everyone, they have the powerful potential to change the way you approach and execute sex with your partner. If you are a male, you should consider the benefits of working with a harness. Contact companies like Adore Me More to learn more.